Episode 21

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24th Nov 2025

3 Simple Words That Will Change Your Life

How to change your life? Give yourself permission to let go of other peoples opinions. Ditch perfection anxiety and the need to be a people pleaser. It's time to embrace personal growth by taking action without waiting for external validation, because ultimately, No One Cares.

In this episode, Motivational Speaker Bart Walsh shares the three words that changed everything, and how they can set you free too. After years of hiding behind perfectionism and people-pleasing, a mentor's simple truth shifted Bart's entire perspective on taking action, speaking up, and showing up authentically.

The spotlight effect tricks us into believing everyone is watching our every move, but the reality is far different. Most people are starring in their own show, dealing with their own challenges, and barely notice our stumbles. When we truly grasp this concept, it becomes the key that opens every door we've been afraid to walk through.

What You'll Discover in This Episode:

  • 1. The psychological bias keeping you stuck and how to break free from the imaginary audience in your head.
  • 2. Why your nervousness isn't as obvious as you think and how the illusion of transparency works against you.
  • 3. Real-world applications for your career, relationships, dreams, and daily self-talk.
  • 4. A simple practice to start taking "no one cares" steps immediately—starting with something you can do in the next three minutes.
  • 5. How to build momentum through small, visible actions that compound over time.

This isn't about becoming callous or disconnected. It's about realizing that the people who truly matter in your life will support your growth, while the imaginary critics holding you back simply don't exist. When you stop performing for an audience that isn't there, you finally get to start living for the one that is—yourself and those you're meant to serve.

Ready to stop waiting for permission and start giving it to yourself? Your future self is counting on the brave move you make today.

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Built Resilient
Build Unshakeable Mental and Physical Resilience
Finally! A health podcast that speaks to normal people.
Built Resilient is a show that answers the questions that are often thought about, but rarely spoken aloud.
Hosted by motivational speaker and resilience coach Bart Walsh, each episode dives into the real, raw topics people ask him after his keynote speeches.

Whether you're feeling stuck, burned out, or just know you’re meant for more, this show gives you simple, powerful strategies to level up your physical and mental health. Because resilience isn’t just about surviving. It’s about becoming stronger, sharper, and more unshakable every day.

If you're ready to build real resilience from the inside out, physically, mentally, emotionally you're in the right place.

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Bart Walsh

Bart Walsh is an actor, father, and one of Australia’s most respected voices in both fitness and resilience. As Head Coach for Jetts Fitness Australia, his professional work impacts thousands of lives, but it’s his personal journey that truly inspires.

In his early 20s, Bart was diagnosed with aggressive cancer. Rather than becoming a victim, he turned inwards, discovering that physical strength could rebuild mental resilience.

In 2020, he and his wife experienced the tragic loss of their newborn son, Aurélien. In response, Bart created Aurélien’s Workout, an annual event that transforms grief into growth and love into legacy.

Most recently, he was diagnosed with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease, a degenerative neurological condition that threatens his ability to move. But instead of giving in, Bart chose to lean in, continuing to live, teach, and speak with even greater purpose.

Now Bart has decided to pic up the mic, and give air to the important questions he gets after his presentations and workshops. Questions whose answers will help thousands of people become more resilient week over week.